Sunday 27 October 2013

                                                 Together We Can Change The World


Place :- SNEHALAYA Gwalior

For a long time now i have heard that we should try to help others in healing their pain and may be knowing their pain will make us realise how small our own sufferings are.....Once again God gave me an opportunity to Thnak him from the bottom of my heart for the life I have today. An opportunity to say a billion thanks to him that it's not me or my child instead of asking him like we always do WHY ME?????????

Have you realised ever that in this hi-tech 21st centuary world where everyone is striving for perction and yet there are many who are falling behind from our relentless rat race for existence. Yes I am talking about a very few indead very few of those 70 million disabled people in India. Are you aware of the fact that every one in 10 children or 3% of the country's child population falls in this category.....

Yet apart from a few orgnisations like SNEHALAYA which I visited for the first time today Noone seems to be doing somthing about it. " I always wondered why somebody didn't do anything about that, then I realises I am somebody......" and I need to start doing something about it......

SNEHALAYA which in hindi means the house filled with love, is an orgnisation which provides shelter to underpriviliged intelectually challanged children. I was astonished when the car entered the compound. It is a huge huge campur of around 50 acres with lush green garden as far as you can see...... Infront of the gate stands a tall red brick building fo SNEHALAYA INTERNATIONAL PUBLIC SCHOOL....... around the scool there is a concrete road as long as 1500 feet which lead to SNEHALAYA main premesis which houses about 60 special children..... Girls & Boys both in around 50-50 ratio...........As we got down from the car and start walking on the fields the first thing we swas was a group of children playing cricket..... We could not believe our eyes because what we imagined was nothing like this.... You could not look at them and tell that they were any differennt from normal children..... But as we walked closer to them we could see they were different....... and we looked around they all we looking at us with curiosity.....  some smiled, some stared, some walked up to us and shook hand...... we felt welcomed..... We walked through the grounds to the cabins which are for boys.... we walked into one of them its neat clean & tidy..... even the wash room are stark clean.... We meet the care taker.... He is also a young lad not abouve 30 who is affectionatly directing them as they play... The question that comes into my mind how much of moral courage all these people have to take care of such a emotionally, physically and morally challenging task....

From here we walk tothe girls cottages taking a little detour of the campus....Girls have cottages similar to boys stark clean neat & cozy.... all the cottages have a seperate playing rooms with colourfull walls. People around tell us that some of these clidren are not orphan they are left here by their selfish parents knowingly....... I ashamed of such parents... I look around all thoseinnocent eyes are looking at me with mixed emotions some are shy. some scared, some happy, some curious........ There is girl infront of me on the wheel chair she does not have a leg since childhood...... my heart pains for her...... I look at her for a while and then we walk into another cottage where there are 3 children on 3 seperate beds, they don't move, they don't say a word, they don't give any expression, they look like barely living skeletons with skin on them...... My heart is so full that i almost feel choked..... the person with us informs us all these bed ridden children are actually between 16 to 20 years of age..... a gasp escapes my throat.... I felt like crying but I can't I felt like saluting all the care takersfor the great jon they are doing....

There are several of such children on the streets and God knows what all they go through every day......In SNEHALAYA they not only rescue them, they cure them, take care of them but also they teach them how to survive and progress in the world.... Special skills are tought to them to help them express themselves. They draw, they paint, they dance, they sing, they pray, they learn.....all of this is tought to them normally through drills & repetition over a period of years.....
We walked into a room which is filled with handycrafted item made by these very same children..... we all are amazed... there is a huge drwaing of SNEHALAYA, there are beautiful glittering cards, candles & paintings etc.... I find it breattakingly awsome........

We gather all the children together and give them clothes.... the happyness on their faces when they take those cloths in their hands is so visible.....All I need from them in return is their blessings for what my parents tought me is to" HELP THE NEEDFULL AND THAT'S EQUAL TO WORSHIPING GOD"..... I see them happily running here and their with the clothes in their hand.... they squeeel with delight... there enthusiasm is almost infectious..... 
DI Mujhe Bhi Sajna Hai........


My Idol..... He is the one who inspired me to do all that I am doing...... 

Masti With The Chillar party @ SNEHALAYA

Mujhe Ye colour Pasand hai.....

Mujhe bhi Mujhe Bhi.....


Didi Meri Bat Bhi Suno Na......

I again thank GOD for giving me such a normal life.... For giving me ability of being able to do what I choose to do......as a matter of fact whatI choose to do with my ability is entirely up to me and I HAVE CHOSEN........

I have chosen to do something for these children.....

WALKED IN WITH A MOTIVE WALKED OUT WITH A MISSION



Tuesday 17 September 2013

BEING ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE GRASS

Date:- 15th September, 2013Place:- Jiwaji Club, GwaliorOccasion:- Being a part of the Judgement panel of JC's Mrs. Gwalior 2013

Year 1998 I was just 19 years old, was studying @ KRG college. We had a group of 7 friends..... and I can say they were the best friends I ever had....... they were my strength,my weakness,my inspiration & my competition......We all very proudly named our group as VIBGYOR..... each color represented either one of us...... I was the color green for my friends Sheeba, Shweta, Suchairita, Bhavna, Poonam & Seema thought I had a little bit of chilli in my personality.....

Well today's event reminded me of one of my favorite memories of college time..... winning the crown of Ms. KRG...... It was nothing less than winning Ms. Universe itself back then..... I still remember the days when I practiced for catwalk watching DoorDarshan the only available TV channel those days...... I also remember tipping on my own clothes and falling flat on my face several time...... I remember bruised knees and hands...... Hours of standing in front of the mirror and practicing to answer the final question.... I still remember that moment exactly as if it all happened yesterday..... 

As I stood there on the stage with thousands of eyes looking at us intently.... Feeling nervous and cold in feet....the question thrown to me was "what is most beautiful about you?"..... I drew a deeeeeeeeeep breath and smiled as if I knew the answer from the bones..... I said " The most beautiful thing about me is my never shaking confidence in myself"...... 

Then there was a hawwwwwwwwwwwwww moment....... For months I have thought and anticipated how will I react if my name was to be announced as a winner..... Most of the beauty pageant I had seen the winner always gave that big HAWWWWWWWWWWWWW wide eyed amazed expression and that was too cliche.... I did not want to have that expression on my face when I was announced as a winner...... But as we all stood on the stage anticipating who have stolen the crown.... our teacher announced my name as Ms. KRG and next thing I remember feeling was happy shock and I gave the HAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW expression & I guess I did not look amazed I looked flabbergasted.....

I really did win.... I was asked to say something to the people present there but as it happens I was that happy I could not say a word..... I could feel my eyes go moist with overflow of emotions...... and when they crowned me the first thought that came to my head was the biggest sacrifice to win the contest was justified.... I actually got my waist length hair shortened to shoulder length because I thought it will look better when I will wear the crown.......   

Today when I sat on judgement table to judge Mrs. Gwalior 2013 cparticipants....... All those memories came running back to me....But today when I look at all the beautiful mothers, wives... I feel entranced I can see that competitive spirit that fire in them and I felt puffed with proud for being a woman... It was a true honor to walk on the other side of the grass only being too well aware that times have moved forward and we all have much more of freedom of following our dreams and flying as high as we want to......

For 

" We should not be afraid of flying. We should be afraid of not flying."

Some stills from the moments relived are attached below:















Monday 16 September 2013

THE FULL CIRCLE............................

Date:- 13th Sep, 2013

Venue:- KRG College

Occasion:- Anti-Obesity Awareness Meet

"All life is doing is unfolding itself adjacent moment to adjacent moment in front of you..... For all I know one will know what will the next moment hold for them....."

Its a feeling of Deja-Vu that I feel right now......Same long corridors same beautiful vast green lawn and the old Victorian structure standing amid all up tight & tall with all of its grace intact from last many decades........In disbelieve as I turn around I see the window of the room that I once have spent my days and nights in.......I feel amazed even flabbergasted.......I am smiling ear to ear like a 20 year old girl at the fond memories which are because of this very place........

       Life has actually come a full circle..........This is exactly where I started my career from....... "Kamla Raja Girls PG College" which all of us with a lot of love know as KRG......... I came here as a young girl of 16 just out of +2 and had rare idea of the world outside my home.........Protected by my parents and elder sisters I have always lived in the comfort of my home......I was scared walked slow thought a lot..... coming here was like all of sudden being in the new unknown world..... An unknown world with its own happiness, sadness, merits, demerits, fears & motivation..........But then the new world chose to be really very kind to me and as they say "REST IS HISTORY" 

"Life Happened,

Life Happens,

Life will continue to happen"

Today after almost 13 years i walked the same corridors again, went through the same halls but this time not running on my toes to meet a dead;line or looking for the right person to complete a project or task in hand etc. etc.........Same faces which at that time inspired fear mixed with motivation looked more friendly and warm and as I look at them they inspired love & an unbidden flow of respect....... Yes you guessed it right I am talking about our teachers....... 

As I walked into the classrooms I look at my team deeply engaged in training the students of my own department on obesity & it's side effects. As I look around at the spell bounded students the little girl inside me ran to catch the back seat of the class with the best of my mates..... The feeling is overwhelming..... well as I happily climb up the stage I feel exceptionally proud. 

Today I am here to represent my own dream and to share a part of that dream with everyone present there for I know without KRG and the wonderful teachers and an amazing friends my dream would not have come true.......

Here are some stills from the glorious moments I relived on 13th September, 2013.................

DEEP PRAJWALAN CENEMONY


OUR REVITAL PRESENTATION

ADDRESSING THE STUDENTS














LUNCH WITH THE IDOLS










Tuesday 16 July 2013

DREAMS.....

Today when I walked in to Revital Mantra my very own Fitness slimming and fitness center..... I felt a great sense of satisfaction sweeping through my entire being........I kept standing at the granite staircase which leads one inside the center....& kept staring at the White Banner which in bold red letters says REVITAL MANTRA...........For a moment I thought and re-thought and re-thought have I really done it......Have I really make this dream come true.....I felt like pinching myself so hard that i should come back to earth with a thud.......But Duhhhhhhh I'm wide awake, I ain't dreaming I ain't a day dreamer, I ain't a sleep walker.....I am like everybody says a "Do Gooder", a "Go Getter"......Just then a thought brought a broad smile on my face......

Ya ya I know you would want to know which thought. Let me remind there is a saying in Hindi you know when people want to tell you that to achieve something big you have to work hard they say " Aise hi thodi bade bade kaam ho jate hai Jutiyan Ghisani Padati hai"........Well every time I think of this I think of those 12 pairs of shoes which i have kept as a souvenir at my home. A memorandum of the hard work that I did to bring this dream to reality.............

Well Thinking all this and much more I climbed the stair case and walked inside the center.....I noticed the reception the cream and brown semi circular reception desk....the system kept over it....the flower vase on the left hand side........another feeling came to me the feeling of amazement....... I walked inside my cabin and as I settled down on my Brown Executive comfort back Chair and allowed my mind to wander here and there......I found myself surprised at the thought that struck me.....When Albert Einstein invented E=mc² did he knew he is going to discover E=mc²??????????Or..... When Sir Isaac Newton found Gravity did he know that he was going to find Gravity......

Well I'm not comparing myself with any of these great people........I'm humbly just saying that when I kept the first brick of REVITAL MANTRA's base.......Trust me if you ever will I did not know where am I going to reach with this.....Will I get your support?????????

But Now I know and realize and accept that whatever I have achieved today is because of the blessings of God almighty himself and My Parents who have loved me unconditionally and the love given to me, REVITAL MANTRA and its subordinates by YOOOOOUUUUUUUUU........ No matter what I do I will be forever indebted to everyone named or Un-named here for all the LOVE, CARE, CONCERN, SUPPORT, FAITH & KINDNESS you have showered me with for last 2 and hald years...........


For all of you here are some stills from the dream  of which you are and going to be an integral part forever.......


FEMALE BEAUTY SECTION (REVITAL MANTRA)




FEMALE BEAUTY SECTION (REVITAL MANTRA)



RECEPTION (REVITAL MANTRA)



THE ENTRANCE (REVITAL MANTRA)



WORKOUT ZONE (REVITAL MANTRA)


WORKOUT ZONE (REVITAL MANTRA)


MY CABIN (REVITAL MANTRA)


SPA, JACUZZI (REVITAL MANTRA)


SAUNA, STEAM, SHOWER (REVITAL MANTRA)



JACUZZI (REVITAL MANTRA)



THERAPY ROOMS (REVITAL MANTRA)



THERAPY ROOMS (REVITAL MANTRA)


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Dr. Ruchi Rai Thakur
Managing Director
REVITAL MANTRA